Most people are familiar with the term masochist because of the acronym of S&M. While most people understand that a masochist is someone that enjoys pain. Of coarse the levels of pain can vary from person to person. It seems that most people that play in S&M or Bondage play fall on the mild spectrum of this. Most people enjoy a mild spanking, a little bit of nipple pinching, or some minor cock and ball play. There are a few people out there that enjoy something a little more intense play such as a canning, electric play, or more stretching of body parts. I have not met anyone that I have personally known that went beyond this level. While I have heard of a group that truly enjoys life changing pain those are just stories and here say so I do not have experience of this myself. I am not someone that enjoy hurting someone I do not mind sending a little bit of intense sensation for someone I am playing with. I do not want to hurt someone that I know. There are fantasies that I play in such as castration but these are only fantasies for me. I do not desire to hurt someone in real time that would cause them pain that would last them for a long time. It is fun to play on the milder side of this spectrum and for a number of people it is a very good way to relieve a large amount of stress. In some ways it primal in nature and we as humans rarely get to explore that sensation.
This is one fantasy that is felt and enjoyed by both sexes and I have not experienced a difference between the sexes in how they enjoy having it expressed upon them. Both men and women enjoy nipple play and having their nipples teased and tormented to some degree. Both sexes enjoy spanking with a number of different implements. Surprisingly enough men and women also enjoy having their sexual centers tormented as well. It seems to be one of the easiest forms of power play that both sexes can fall into because the choice is taken away from them so quickly and so easily. A number of people feel a great deal of shame from their sexual desires and having someone take control and take away their choice allows a great number of people to side step those emotional walls.
Have you ever played in masochist? How far do you enjoy being pushed and to what degree do you like to have those implemented on you? Tell me in the comments.