Men often think that being a cuckold will be all about their secret desires. A large majority of men wish to become cuckolds due to their own fantasy. They think it will be a huge turn on to watch their wife get fucked by another man. Rarely do the realize as a woman takes on lovers her sense of self grows in enormous ways. That meek little house wife develops an appetite for huge cocks. An appetite her cuckold is not able to fulfill. Once a woman starts to enjoy something much nicer than what she has at home often she just does not want to go back to it. It is like living on ramen noodles then eating $300 meals for a month the thought of going back just does not seem appealing at all. A man will soon learn that being a cuckold is less and less about his wants and more and more about hers.
A true cuckold will appreciate serving his woman in any way that she wants. He knows that he is lacking either in skills or cock size and often in both. A cuckold will see his woman being pleased by a man and desire that look on her face sometimes even more than she does. Many a straight man has learned to serve his wife’s lover not because he wants to, but because that is what she desires. I have often heard a cuckold tell me that a good lover takes on a god quality in a household. It is not about the man but about how he changes the woman that matters. Cleaning up after a man which means licking up his sperm from a cuckold’s wife’s body. While a non cuckold man might find this thought completely unsettling; a cuckold will come to crave it.
The true test comes when a cuckold is a expected to lick his wife’s pussy juices off of another man’s cock. For most men this is the hardest thing for them to think about until they actually do it. Once they smell her smell and taste her on that penis the only thing that matters is doing what she wants.
A cuckold should always desire to make his wife the happiest she can be no matter what she asks of him to do.
Goddess worship is a mindset of a man being completely committed to the woman in his life. While most men are raised to act as if a woman is well below them. They are taught to act like studs or as if women are disposal-able objects in their lives. While they may act like this they rarely truly feel it. A man is always looking for that one woman that he can worship. Unfortunately for women they are slow to realize the power they can have over any man if they just behave in the way to take it.
A man desires to have a woman to follow where she controls him and he wants nothing more to give her everything that she wants. A woman just has to use that sexuality to keep a man on the edge. Teasing a man keeping him on that edge of craving a release with sensuality puts him in a position of being submissive to a woman. A woman can be a goddess in any man’s life if she tries.
Relationships with a woman who takes the active lead are often far happier than those where men are in charge and especially where no one is in charge. This whole concept of we are all equals in a relationship often means the relationship burns out and dies. I talk to women all the time that are bored with their man they say things like he never does all the things he did when we were dating. He never is spontaneous. The man in turn will say things like she is always angry. She never seems to even want to be around me. I am always on edge. They both will say our sex life is not were it should be or where it was.
When a woman steps up and takes control she is happier and as long as it is done out of love not snideness the relationship soon begins to flourish. Even if a man is put in a cage for an extended amount of time with him just pleasuring her he will want to do more and more to make her happy.