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Ball Busting/CBT (Cock And BAll Torture)

This is one of my favorite ways to play. I have been playing with cock and balls for a very long time. One of my favorite ways is to tie them up and stretch them out. If you have bought some of my movies you have probably seen some of the cock cages, ball seperators, ball stretchers and other toys that are in my collection. I have to say though that metal and rope are two of my most favorite things to play with. I like how metal starts out cold then warms up to the same temperature as skin.  I have a number of metal eye hooks in my bedroom and a number of pulleys to use as stretching mechanisms. Tease and denial is one of my favorite games to play.  I have a number of guys that think about this kind of fun but their significant others do not want to play.  I even talk to a number of guys that are into being kicked in the balls.  They like the feel of the instant pain and the feel of complete loss of control. Most of the time this comes from a guy that has been kicked by girls when they were younger. The loss of control is what makes the ongoing fantasy appealing for most guys that feeling of being pushed further than they would ever want to go. There are a number of guys that are not into pain they are into the fantasy of the pain. They do not want to be kicked violently in the balls but they do want to talk about it. That is the great thing about phone sex. We can explore a lot of things that would get way to intense with a real life mistress. I do have some guys that are into smacking themselves over and over again in the testicles.  If a guy calls me and tells me he wants to have a fantasy then I can certaintly understand the difference. If there is something you are into don’t be afraid to call and talk about. We can take it as far as you want or as a mild as you want. The important thing is opening up and telling me what you are wanting to discuss. I have played and enjoy playing in real life. However, I greatly enjoy having a fantasy and the most fun a person can have is in their own mind.

Memoirs Of A Tenderloin Stripper Part 22

Part 22

This was a wonderful book about a journey during an interesting time for San Fransico. This is part one and a part two is available. The audio is a relaxing almost two hours of sexy and funny adventure. There is a book two make sure you check that out. Six feet tall, twenty and filled with a spirit of impulsive adventure, Nina plans on ‘re-inventing’ herself in the big city. The city she chooses to do this in is San Francisco. Nina is determined to forget about her failed romances, especially with college professor Waldo Young; and her burning ambition is to ‘write’, ‘write’, ‘write’! First though, Nina goes wild. She gets work as a ‘Dial-a-Doll’ girl at ‘Flesh and Fantasy’, a huge porno emporium where men can watch women dance on a revolving ‘Peek-a-Rama’ stage, and talk to them privately, in coin-activated booths.

I had a great time making an Mp3 of this book and look foward to everything Poppy gives us in the future. Nina befriends a motley crew of dancers and street people in the notorious Tenderloin district. Before long, she encounters Dale McCarskey, a young and gorgeous man-child of the streets. He shakes Nina’s life up completely, in every which way and loose.

Memoirs of a Tenderloin Stripper, Book 1 will leave readers hungry to learn more about the fiery match-up between Nina and Dale. There will be plenty of drama in store for Book 2, and for readers who would enjoy seeing the story in movie format ,

the original screenplay “Reinventing Nina,” will soon become available.

Poppy Oliver

 

Is our first author for bedtime stories. Please be watching your email boxes for her story and for the full version available. Also, go bookmark her page on Amazon so that you will never miss a brand new naughty adventure. I asked her a few questions and her answers were just so wonderful.

What made you start writing erotica?

When I was nine years old (!!!) I got a hold of two books my 12. When I was nine years old (!!!) I got a hold of two books my 12 years older brother was giving my sixteen years OLDER sister as gag gifts for her 25th birthday:  “Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex, But Were Afraid to Ask!” and “The Sensuous Woman”.  I read both books cover to cover one weekend before my sister ever saw them…and I have never been the same since!  I am into the full realm of all things sexual from Vanilla to Extra-Terrestrial and all sorts of bizarre points in between.  I also grew up in the days of The RockyHorror Picture Show theme “Dream It, Be It…”  If something captured my attention I wanted to immerse myself in it.  So I became a stripper. For a short time,   I also became one of the very original phone sex operators in 1981 when there were only a couple of companies offering this service.  Little would I imagine that three and a half decades later, I would be making a full-time income from that very same crazy money-making subculture?  So many things have happened in the years between, but one truth remains solid and self-evident: Sex Sells!!!

How did your character grow through her sexual adventures?

I wound up marrying one of my customers who saw me dancing…he utters this sentence in the book (which is EXACTLY what he said to me in real life:) “I’m going to make you quit your job and marry me…”  how cinematic!  The rest is history (and it made for great book material!) The marriage was an unmitigated short-lived disaster, but I did have this character’s child…who is now a gorgeous, brilliant 6’7″ Silicon Beach millionaire/tech guru/entrepreneur…great fodder for my next novel (sorry kid, but I write about who and what I know!)

Is there a new work coming out soon for your fans?

See above!  Yes, since “Memoirs” documents my early 20’s…I have three decades’ worth of material to exploit!  Most currently, I have been a NiteFlirt phone sex operator and battled a five-year video poker gambling addiction.  I could keep Lifetime Movie Channel in movie scripts for several seasons!

What is your favorite personal fetish?

I’m a pleasure junkie!  Give me an infinity pool, a  witty cabana boy, a personal superfood chef and time to savor it all…who needs anything else?  Oh, I love beautiful strong hands on a man…that know what they are doing…yes, I do have a bit of a hand fetish.

Do you prefer to watch or read sexual fantasies?

I prefer to live them out!!!

Check out all her books through Amazon and join her sexual adventures.

 

Make sure you follow her on twitter!

Check out all the authors!

Memoirs Of A Tenderloin Stripper Part 21

Part 21

This was a wonderful book about a journey during an interesting time for San Fransico. This is part one and a part two is available. The audio is a relaxing almost two hours of sexy and funny adventure. There is a book two make sure you check that out. Six feet tall, twenty and filled with a spirit of impulsive adventure, Nina plans on ‘re-inventing’ herself in the big city. The city she chooses to do this in is San Francisco. Nina is determined to forget about her failed romances, especially with college professor Waldo Young; and her burning ambition is to ‘write’, ‘write’, ‘write’! First though, Nina goes wild. She gets work as a ‘Dial-a-Doll’ girl at ‘Flesh and Fantasy’, a huge porno emporium where men can watch women dance on a revolving ‘Peek-a-Rama’ stage, and talk to them privately, in coin-activated booths.

I had a great time making an Mp3 of this book and look foward to everything Poppy gives us in the future. Nina befriends a motley crew of dancers and street people in the notorious Tenderloin district. Before long, she encounters Dale McCarskey, a young and gorgeous man-child of the streets. He shakes Nina’s life up completely, in every which way and loose.

Memoirs of a Tenderloin Stripper, Book 1 will leave readers hungry to learn more about the fiery match-up between Nina and Dale. There will be plenty of drama in store for Book 2, and for readers who would enjoy seeing the story in movie format ,

the original screenplay “Reinventing Nina,” will soon become available.

Poppy Oliver

 

Is our first author for bedtime stories. Please be watching your email boxes for her story and for the full version available. Also, go bookmark her page on Amazon so that you will never miss a brand new naughty adventure. I asked her a few questions and her answers were just so wonderful.

What made you start writing erotica?

When I was nine years old (!!!) I got a hold of two books my 12. When I was nine years old (!!!) I got a hold of two books my 12 years older brother was giving my sixteen years OLDER sister as gag gifts for her 25th birthday:  “Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex, But Were Afraid to Ask!” and “The Sensuous Woman”.  I read both books cover to cover one weekend before my sister ever saw them…and I have never been the same since!  I am into the full realm of all things sexual from Vanilla to Extra-Terrestrial and all sorts of bizarre points in between.  I also grew up in the days of The RockyHorror Picture Show theme “Dream It, Be It…”  If something captured my attention I wanted to immerse myself in it.  So I became a stripper. For a short time,   I also became one of the very original phone sex operators in 1981 when there were only a couple of companies offering this service.  Little would I imagine that three and a half decades later, I would be making a full-time income from that very same crazy money-making subculture?  So many things have happened in the years between, but one truth remains solid and self-evident: Sex Sells!!!

How did your character grow through her sexual adventures?

I wound up marrying one of my customers who saw me dancing…he utters this sentence in the book (which is EXACTLY what he said to me in real life:) “I’m going to make you quit your job and marry me…”  how cinematic!  The rest is history (and it made for great book material!) The marriage was an unmitigated short-lived disaster, but I did have this character’s child…who is now a gorgeous, brilliant 6’7″ Silicon Beach millionaire/tech guru/entrepreneur…great fodder for my next novel (sorry kid, but I write about who and what I know!)

Is there a new work coming out soon for your fans?

See above!  Yes, since “Memoirs” documents my early 20’s…I have three decades’ worth of material to exploit!  Most currently, I have been a NiteFlirt phone sex operator and battled a five-year video poker gambling addiction.  I could keep Lifetime Movie Channel in movie scripts for several seasons!

What is your favorite personal fetish?

I’m a pleasure junkie!  Give me an infinity pool, a  witty cabana boy, a personal superfood chef and time to savor it all…who needs anything else?  Oh, I love beautiful strong hands on a man…that know what they are doing…yes, I do have a bit of a hand fetish.

Do you prefer to watch or read sexual fantasies?

I prefer to live them out!!!

Check out all her books through Amazon and join her sexual adventures.

 

Make sure you follow her on twitter!

Check out all the authors!

Leaving Effective Feedback For A Phone Sex Call

A lot of phone sex operators but a tremendous amount of emphasis on feedback. For myself I do not pay a lot of attention to it. I feel that I get enough feedback from my callers that being concerned about it is not a good utilization of my time. I do want to talk about some things that I feel are important when it comes to feed back. In a number of ways these are universal in nature.

Phone sex operators (pso)  can not control the quality of a call on a large scale. There are so many factors that determine how well a call sounds that while we can make sure we have the best phone service and a good quality phone that is about all we can do. I do not use a cell phone when I started out I did but it caused me so many headaches I quickly changed that. If you use a cell phone there are things that can and will happen. You can have a call drop with plenty of towers showing if the tower gets overloaded your call can just go POOF! You can get static or the “under water” effect where it is just hard to hear. You can have issues with calls connecting or with having it register numbers on your key pad. This is not your fault and certainly not the phone sex operators fault it is not even the fault of the carrier, cell phones just do these things sometimes.  If a call drops there is nothing the pso could have done to prevent or circumvent that so leaving bad feedback on them is just not justified.

If you and the pso just do not agree some people click and some people just never click. I have been doing this for a long time and though this doesn’t happen very often sometimes a caller and me just do not mesh. It does not make me angry there are times when I will just say hey we are not compatible how about you try xyz.  I want happy customers that come back. I think the vast majority of pso’s feel the same way. On this same aspect please do not call a pso that is opposite of what you want. If she/he is dominate and you want to break someone pick someone that is into that kind of play. Tell a new person what you are looking or up front. I get people all the time that tell me that was the best call I have ever had and the reason for this is I try to find what they like. I can easily adapt to someone if they are honest.

Do not expect a pso to break the rules I know you as a caller do not always know the rules. That is okay we will tell you generally in a really nice way sorry we can not do that. We have rules and while we can decide to some degree what we want to talk about there are hard core rules we have to follow. If you are being judgmental of a pso protecting their lively hood on a larger scale that is just not fair.

Now we can discuss what is awesome. First off be honest we can all appreciate honesty. If the pso did not give you what you were looking for ask yourself did I communicate this with them. If you did and there was no reason for them not to comply then that is a reason to put that down.  Did they speak too soft, too loud, or pause too much? We all have off days we are only human here but these are things that feedback is made for. It is perfectly good to give both good and bad that is highly constructive and most pso want to learn to deliver a better call.  If your issue is technical please do not leave that in feedback rarely will you run into a pso that is not willing to help you fix an issue. We want your time to be enjoyable it should be something you look forward to doing again.

Let me hear your thoughts in the comments below!

Memoirs Of A Tenderloin Stripper Part 20

Part 20

This was a wonderful book about a journey during an interesting time for San Fransico. This is part one and a part two is available. The audio is a relaxing almost two hours of sexy and funny adventure. There is a book two make sure you check that out. Six feet tall, twenty and filled with a spirit of impulsive adventure, Nina plans on ‘re-inventing’ herself in the big city. The city she chooses to do this in is San Francisco. Nina is determined to forget about her failed romances, especially with college professor Waldo Young; and her burning ambition is to ‘write’, ‘write’, ‘write’! First though, Nina goes wild. She gets work as a ‘Dial-a-Doll’ girl at ‘Flesh and Fantasy’, a huge porno emporium where men can watch women dance on a revolving ‘Peek-a-Rama’ stage, and talk to them privately, in coin-activated booths.

I had a great time making an Mp3 of this book and look foward to everything Poppy gives us in the future. Nina befriends a motley crew of dancers and street people in the notorious Tenderloin district. Before long, she encounters Dale McCarskey, a young and gorgeous man-child of the streets. He shakes Nina’s life up completely, in every which way and loose.

Memoirs of a Tenderloin Stripper, Book 1 will leave readers hungry to learn more about the fiery match-up between Nina and Dale. There will be plenty of drama in store for Book 2, and for readers who would enjoy seeing the story in movie format ,

the original screenplay “Reinventing Nina,” will soon become available.

Poppy Oliver

 

Is our first author for bedtime stories. Please be watching your email boxes for her story and for the full version available. Also, go bookmark her page on Amazon so that you will never miss a brand new naughty adventure. I asked her a few questions and her answers were just so wonderful.

What made you start writing erotica?

When I was nine years old (!!!) I got a hold of two books my 12. When I was nine years old (!!!) I got a hold of two books my 12 years older brother was giving my sixteen years OLDER sister as gag gifts for her 25th birthday:  “Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex, But Were Afraid to Ask!” and “The Sensuous Woman”.  I read both books cover to cover one weekend before my sister ever saw them…and I have never been the same since!  I am into the full realm of all things sexual from Vanilla to Extra-Terrestrial and all sorts of bizarre points in between.  I also grew up in the days of The RockyHorror Picture Show theme “Dream It, Be It…”  If something captured my attention I wanted to immerse myself in it.  So I became a stripper. For a short time,   I also became one of the very original phone sex operators in 1981 when there were only a couple of companies offering this service.  Little would I imagine that three and a half decades later, I would be making a full-time income from that very same crazy money-making subculture?  So many things have happened in the years between, but one truth remains solid and self-evident: Sex Sells!!!

How did your character grow through her sexual adventures?

I wound up marrying one of my customers who saw me dancing…he utters this sentence in the book (which is EXACTLY what he said to me in real life:) “I’m going to make you quit your job and marry me…”  how cinematic!  The rest is history (and it made for great book material!) The marriage was an unmitigated short-lived disaster, but I did have this character’s child…who is now a gorgeous, brilliant 6’7″ Silicon Beach millionaire/tech guru/entrepreneur…great fodder for my next novel (sorry kid, but I write about who and what I know!)

Is there a new work coming out soon for your fans?

See above!  Yes, since “Memoirs” documents my early 20’s…I have three decades’ worth of material to exploit!  Most currently, I have been a NiteFlirt phone sex operator and battled a five-year video poker gambling addiction.  I could keep Lifetime Movie Channel in movie scripts for several seasons!

What is your favorite personal fetish?

I’m a pleasure junkie!  Give me an infinity pool, a  witty cabana boy, a personal superfood chef and time to savor it all…who needs anything else?  Oh, I love beautiful strong hands on a man…that know what they are doing…yes, I do have a bit of a hand fetish.

Do you prefer to watch or read sexual fantasies?

I prefer to live them out!!!

Check out all her books through Amazon and join her sexual adventures.

 

Make sure you follow her on twitter!

Check out all the authors!

A Boys Life Part Twenty

 

A.N. Pervert

Mr. Pervert is just starting out in his writing career. He has been writing for his own pleasure with recently starting to share his stories on the web. As Mr. Pervert starts to expand I will add links to more of his works. His stories are a lot of fun though so check them out. Especially if you like when a younger man is involved with an older woman.

Interview

When did you start reading erotica?

 

Erotica has fascinated me since I was quite young and realized that people wrote it.  Henry Miller, of all people, was the first author who wrote in that genre that I read.  He was banned in the USA, but I was lucky enough to run into his books in Paris, many years ago.

 

What prompted you to start writing?

 

I retired, and that was one of the things that were suggested to me as an avocation.  I had no experience, but, eventually, just dived right in.  So to speak.

 

Do you have a favorite author erotica or other?

I don’t know that I have one. There are several stories I like,

Afternoon Footsie by VicentE

Girly Points and More Girly Points by Pat in Panties

Mother and I have a Super Bowl Party Parts I, II and III

What have you learned about yourself through your writing process?

Writing fiction is difficult for me is the standout thing.  Before I started I would have said authoritarian females fascinated me, after doing it a bit, it seems bisexuality creeps into my stories much more than I thought it would have when I started.  I’ve never had a homosexual experience, but it fascinates me, and the practitioners fascinate me.

 

sexstories.com

Full Audio

If you want the full audio to listen to it is about an hour long and you can purchase it here.

https://www.projectmaenad.com/links/3184700639

 

How To Do Skype Calls

Have you ever wanted to do a cam call but never knew exactly how it works or how to make it work? Well I have set up a step by step guide to help you through it. We prefer skype it is a little confusing when you first look at it but I will walk you through it all.  First log into your skype. Now go buy our id’s.  Take a look at the screen shot below.

skype how to

 

The red circle is where you paste someone’s id’s to add them to your contacts.  Hit “Enter” that will search skype for that person then click on their name to add them to their contacts.

The blue circle is where your id is located so if you are asked for your skype id this is what you give them.

The purple circle is where you start a video call.

Now lets talk a little proper protocol here. It is okay to ask a simple question via skype. DO NOT type out a whole fantasy that is not cool. However a lot of us girls work from home so we do not always sit right in front of our computers so please remember that. Also if we are on a call already we are paying attention to that person and it can take us a few minutes to get back to you.

It is okay to add us to skype first in fact we encourage it because it can take 30-45 seconds to add someone to there.

Call us on niteflirt FIRST! Do not call on skype first.

Please remember that things go wrong and us girls tend to know about as much about computers as you do. So be kind when something messes up whether on your side or ours often we have little to no control over it.

 

Memoirs Of A Tenderloin Stripper Part 19

Part 19

This was a wonderful book about a journey during an interesting time for San Fransico. This is part one and a part two is available. The audio is a relaxing almost two hours of sexy and funny adventure. There is a book two make sure you check that out. Six feet tall, twenty and filled with a spirit of impulsive adventure, Nina plans on ‘re-inventing’ herself in the big city. The city she chooses to do this in is San Francisco. Nina is determined to forget about her failed romances, especially with college professor Waldo Young; and her burning ambition is to ‘write’, ‘write’, ‘write’! First though, Nina goes wild. She gets work as a ‘Dial-a-Doll’ girl at ‘Flesh and Fantasy’, a huge porno emporium where men can watch women dance on a revolving ‘Peek-a-Rama’ stage, and talk to them privately, in coin-activated booths.

I had a great time making an Mp3 of this book and look foward to everything Poppy gives us in the future. Nina befriends a motley crew of dancers and street people in the notorious Tenderloin district. Before long, she encounters Dale McCarskey, a young and gorgeous man-child of the streets. He shakes Nina’s life up completely, in every which way and loose.

Memoirs of a Tenderloin Stripper, Book 1 will leave readers hungry to learn more about the fiery match-up between Nina and Dale. There will be plenty of drama in store for Book 2, and for readers who would enjoy seeing the story in movie format ,

the original screenplay “Reinventing Nina,” will soon become available.

Poppy Oliver

 

Is our first author for bedtime stories. Please be watching your email boxes for her story and for the full version available. Also, go bookmark her page on Amazon so that you will never miss a brand new naughty adventure. I asked her a few questions and her answers were just so wonderful.

What made you start writing erotica?

When I was nine years old (!!!) I got a hold of two books my 12. When I was nine years old (!!!) I got a hold of two books my 12 years older brother was giving my sixteen years OLDER sister as gag gifts for her 25th birthday:  “Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex, But Were Afraid to Ask!” and “The Sensuous Woman”.  I read both books cover to cover one weekend before my sister ever saw them…and I have never been the same since!  I am into the full realm of all things sexual from Vanilla to Extra-Terrestrial and all sorts of bizarre points in between.  I also grew up in the days of The RockyHorror Picture Show theme “Dream It, Be It…”  If something captured my attention I wanted to immerse myself in it.  So I became a stripper. For a short time,   I also became one of the very original phone sex operators in 1981 when there were only a couple of companies offering this service.  Little would I imagine that three and a half decades later, I would be making a full-time income from that very same crazy money-making subculture?  So many things have happened in the years between, but one truth remains solid and self-evident: Sex Sells!!!

How did your character grow through her sexual adventures?

I wound up marrying one of my customers who saw me dancing…he utters this sentence in the book (which is EXACTLY what he said to me in real life:) “I’m going to make you quit your job and marry me…”  how cinematic!  The rest is history (and it made for great book material!) The marriage was an unmitigated short-lived disaster, but I did have this character’s child…who is now a gorgeous, brilliant 6’7″ Silicon Beach millionaire/tech guru/entrepreneur…great fodder for my next novel (sorry kid, but I write about who and what I know!)

Is there a new work coming out soon for your fans?

See above!  Yes, since “Memoirs” documents my early 20’s…I have three decades’ worth of material to exploit!  Most currently, I have been a NiteFlirt phone sex operator and battled a five-year video poker gambling addiction.  I could keep Lifetime Movie Channel in movie scripts for several seasons!

What is your favorite personal fetish?

I’m a pleasure junkie!  Give me an infinity pool, a  witty cabana boy, a personal superfood chef and time to savor it all…who needs anything else?  Oh, I love beautiful strong hands on a man…that know what they are doing…yes, I do have a bit of a hand fetish.

Do you prefer to watch or read sexual fantasies?

I prefer to live them out!!!

Check out all her books through Amazon and join her sexual adventures.

 

Make sure you follow her on twitter!

Check out all the authors!

A Boys Life Part Nineteen

 

A.N. Pervert

Mr. Pervert is just starting out in his writing career. He has been writing for his own pleasure with recently starting to share his stories on the web. As Mr. Pervert starts to expand I will add links to more of his works. His stories are a lot of fun though so check them out. Especially if you like when a younger man is involved with an older woman.

Interview

When did you start reading erotica?

 

Erotica has fascinated me since I was quite young and realized that people wrote it.  Henry Miller, of all people, was the first author who wrote in that genre that I read.  He was banned in the USA, but I was lucky enough to run into his books in Paris, many years ago.

 

What prompted you to start writing?

 

I retired, and that was one of the things that were suggested to me as an avocation.  I had no experience, but, eventually, just dived right in.  So to speak.

 

Do you have a favorite author erotica or other?

I don’t know that I have one. There are several stories I like,

Afternoon Footsie by VicentE

Girly Points and More Girly Points by Pat in Panties

Mother and I have a Super Bowl Party Parts I, II and III

What have you learned about yourself through your writing process?

Writing fiction is difficult for me is the standout thing.  Before I started I would have said authoritarian females fascinated me, after doing it a bit, it seems bisexuality creeps into my stories much more than I thought it would have when I started.  I’ve never had a homosexual experience, but it fascinates me, and the practitioners fascinate me.

 

sexstories.com

Full Audio

If you want the full audio to listen to it is about an hour long and you can purchase it here.

https://www.projectmaenad.com/links/3184700639

 

BDSM/Domination

This is the new buzz thing with all the girls and I am sure some guys reading Fifty Shades of Grey. I will confess I have not read the books yet. While I have read a ton of other books on the subject I have not got around to these yet. I am sure I will at some point just because of curiosity of the fuss. I am happy that they are allowing a lot of people to open up about their fantasies and explore who they are in a lot of ways. While this is a jump point from what I have gathered this book of fiction is not really even close to the reality of a submissive and dominate relationship. That is perfectly okay I know a lot of people are criticizing the book, but I am sure we all understand that an a work of fiction is not reality. If it does start people going hey I might like this and start talking about it that is quite alright. I have been in the bdsm lifestyle since I was in my late teens so I have been exposed to a lot. I will say for me it is more sensual domination as apposed to hard core pain. I like the tease and the taunt of having someone tied up. I like someone who wants to please me. I really have no desire to break someone. That is why if you talk to me you will hear me say I would rather be a goddess that a mistress any day. For some women and men they want someone to break them they want someone to take their will away from them and leave them in a state that there is no longer a choice for what they will do. That is fine I understand that want and that complete loss of control and power. Neither way is the “right” way as there is no right or wrong with this lifestyle just differences of wants and desires. From the discussions I have gathered on Fifty Shades of Grey that is the just of the book and there is nothing wrong with that fantasy. I just feel that people should understand the whole thing is a fantasy. The life of bdsm and domination is one that can be explored however the two people involved wish to make it happen and it does not have to follow specific rules others than those set within the relationship itself.