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10 Most Dangerous Sexual Fetishes Ever


10. Choking we all see have seen the meme’s and after the Grey series, I personally know of lots of women that are into being choked. This is the really tame one of this list though so hold on tight. Oh and about 1,000 people a year die from this so if you are into choking do so with caution.

9. Public Sex I understand the appeal of this one it is about the rush of doing something where you should not be doing it. I might be guilty of this one a wee bit. The major issue here is being arrested which would ruin the mood.

8.  Cannibalism wow just wow. Us humans are a very strange lot I know this seems like it should be number one but it way down the list of top ten. That should be scary in itself.  Just in case you were wondering the largest act of cannibalism each year is eating someone’s feet.

7.  Train attraction to train this is not about having sex on a train I can get that. This is about wanting to have sex with a train or a part of a train. Yes, people do die from attempting to have sexual relations with a train. Crazy right!

6. Pyrophiliacs this is all about the fire, not the emotional kind either. Some people enjoy playing with fire but others want to be ON fire while having an orgasm.

5. Sex with/in Cars I have written about this one before and it is about having sex with a car. Now we all or at least the good majority of us have had sex in a car. Not generally because of fetish more of being in the moment or lack of privacy.

4. Vampirism I have known a lot of people who were into vampirism in a number of different forms. Some like the smell others the feel and yes some people do enjoy the taste.  Right now it seems to be a “fad” but under that, this one will always be around.

3. Symphorphilia This is another one I have written about a few times. This is about people who get off on accidents or tragedy. Pain and pleasure are always close together. The issue comes when people demand their fix so much they set up something to get it.

2.  Roller Coasters again this is not about having sex on a roller coaster something that actually might be fun. This is about having sex with a roller coaster. Not sure I will ever get having a feeling for inanimate objects.

  1. Zoophilia yes this is number one and that is just sad to me. I can never wrap my mind around the whole animal and human sexual contact thing.



Taboo is one of those words that makes most phone sex operators skin crawl. While most of what we talk about is considered taboo by definition. It seems at some point this word has come to mean incest, pedophilia, and scat. I do not know how we got to this point, but that is not what taboo is by any means. We do not make the rules about what we can and can not discuss or role play. Though the things I listed above would be on my ‘no no’ list irregardless. There are reasons why we do not discuss things that society deems completely unacceptable. A lot of what we discuss people would be uncomfortable with and that is okay to push people’s boundaries. Those types of things do not harm anyone either mentally or physically. The ones that create a situation of harm are not places to explore though. Incest is not something that society can ever accept it is detrimental to the society by creating unhealthy relationships that are regressive in nature. It is extremely harmful to the family ties and those can never be repaired. Even the discussion of it can give someone a sense of well I discussed it x amount of times and that person was okay with it there fore I can proceed.  Again this is not taboo it is a breaking of social laws. I doubt any of us need to discuss pedophilia in depth. While the age of consent varies from state to state and with the times. There comes a point where no one argues the point. Most sites keep this at age 18 because that is the universal age of consent. Yes we phone sex operators are aware that your state might be different. No we will not argue this point with you. We are not in a position to make a judgment call on this we have been told by the federal government as far as we are concerned 18 is the age of consent. It is not okay to put us in a position where we have to fuss at you about something that is just common sense.  While the list I have provided here is not all inclusive and each site changes it for a number of reasons. Please be respectful that while we want to make you happy there are just some lines we are not able to cross. Your call while important does not take precedence over our whole income.

Face Sitting

I am a huge fan of face sitting. It puts me in the perfect position to tease a man’s nipples, cock, and testicles.  I greatly enjoy the feel of a man’s tongue in my pussy and ass. I have found that most men like a woman to sit on their face it is intimate and passionate for them. A lot of women do not understand the power they have over a man.  Women in the United States are brought up to think their bodies stink or  their bodies are ugly. Men are absolutely attracted to the way a woman smells that is a biological thing it is part of mating and all animals are attracted to their potential mates.  What makes women stink or smell off is when they start using all different kinds of products to hide their natural good smells with something artificial. These fake smells can just mess up the chemistry between two people or they can such things as mess up a woman’s ph values and cause health related issues.  All a woman ever needs is soap and water nothing more. Men are also very attracted to the way a woman vagina looks. Most men do not care if it is shaved or hairy they generally like it kept meaning hair not running down the sides of the inner thighs but beyond that they just want to be close.  It is true that every woman tastes different and men adore the way their woman tastes.  Again do not go messing with biology here just a general regime of hygiene is all that is required.  A woman may think she smells bad or tastes bad but at that time is when her partner is most attracted to her.

There is a huge power of sitting down on a man’s face and capturing his head between my thighs. I like that moment when his tongue makes first contact with my clit. Rubbing my pussy all over his face and knowing that I am scenting him with me is animalistic in nature.  It is kind of a primitive way of marking my territory.  The funny thing is a person that smells like sex is far more attractive to other people than one who does not. It has to do with sexual pheromones.  I want my partner to know that I am in control and they will only get pleasure if they take care of my wants and desires first.

What about you are you a guy into face sitting or a girl that enjoys the power? Tell me all about it in the comments below.

Sissy Feminization

Sissy femininization is one of the more popular subjects that I talk about on the phone. The basis of the subject can vary greatly but there are a lot of men that like to thing about this type of  role play. I try to get men to talk about what they are into because the sessions have such a large degree of difference between one person to another. Some men want to only be about girls they want to be completely dressed up and turned into women in all ways. Dressing  up in girls clothes, wearing makeup, and even wigs. To all men that are into being sissified and feminization the outfit from top to bottom is extremely important.  To some men they want to be dominated by a woman with a strap on while others want to have a lesbian session.  For a large portion though they want to be forced or made into bi sexual activities with other men. They are not into being on their own most of them want a woman involved. They desire that power exchange that happens between a sissy and a woman.

All men that I have ever spoken with or played with in person have been about the process of becoming a woman. They want to enjoy the feeling of the fabric. Being made to get rid of all their manly things is a huge liberation for them. The touch of silky things is a huge turn on for all the sissies.  Feminization involves the use of make up to create a more girly person. Men are often fascinated by makeup but often leary of it. It is like a complex toy that they want but are too afraid to touch. The feel of the lipstick as it slide on their lips is often a complete mind changing event. For some men the process of feminization is the only thing they crave and they want to go as deep  into that process either mentally or physically as they can possibly go. For other men they crave a sexual nature to their process they want to experience sexual relations as women do either through strapons or real men.  I enjoy feminization and sissy sessions because of the light hearted nature of everyone involved. It is a fun time that allows a lot of creativity, teasing, and power exchange.


Have you ever thought about sissification and feminization? Ever wore panties or maybe tried on makeup? Tell me in the comments below.

Live Out Our Fantasies Together

Role playing is what brings the fun into a good night. It spices everything up and makes for some memorable times. There are so many things that I enjoy doing. We can just talk about all those times I have had sex in a naughty public place. I can always get out my big thick strap-on and show you how to be on the bottom. Are you into a sassy girl that likes to put you in your place and show you complete humiliation no matter where we are? Oh or how about a bunch of guys for me or maybe even for you lets talk about all those fun gang bangs we can explore. I have always liked the thought of caging up a guys cock and me holding the key. I am even into the thought of me in a full chastity belt and you are the only one that can turn me loose. Do you want to be the bad doctor that makes his nurse do all kinds of naughty things in the examining room? We can make it even kinkier where I am the Doctor and all my nurses force you to be our play thing for the afternoon. I am such a bad secretary and you are my high profile boss that knows exactly what it takes to make me behave. Let me be that naughty neighbor that shows off all her goodies and makes you do terrible things would will never share with your wife. Flirty and obnoxious fresh from college show me what an older man does with a young girl like me. There is nothing more important than a good education as your Librarian I am going to make sure you learn your lessons. Even if we have to complete those lessons over and over. College girls like me know how to make a professor do anything and I will make sure you want to reward me with really good grades. You know me when you see me I am a very submissive girl that likes doing kinky things for her dominate male. Put me in my place and I will take complete care of you. Please, Officer I can not get another ticket I am just a girl in trouble if you are bad cop it will end up being a very good night for you. I am habitually late with the rent and there is just no way I can pay this month how naughty of a landlord are you can we work something out? These are just a few little ideas in my deviant mind. Do you have have an idea call me!

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No No Topics

I have talked about some of the things the site will not let us discuss because of laws that we all have to follow. I am not saying the laws are good nor am I saying they are bad they are just there so that is the way it is. I thought I would touch on some of the things that I will not personally talk about and why.

Incest to me this is the greatest crime on family. With a lot of blended families there seems to be a large amount of step fathers that think about their step daughters. Even if it is just in their head which I hear a lot I will not participate. If you take on a family then you better respect it. While I can not force someone to respect the vows they have made to be a good, honest, decent human I will not participate in fantasies of them breaking those vows. This one is not open to discussion.

Underage- this one is a grey area for me on one aspect. I will not talk about YOU doing something to someone who is underage. However, I do understand that a lot of sexuality comes from the first times of doing things. I understand how fantasy can go back to those times.

Bestiality- Yeah really keep it within our own species.

Scat- sorry I do not even see the appeal of this one and it just flat out turns me off.

Fisting- if you want to talk about me doing it to you I am okay with that. I am not into having it done to me for me the thought is a huge turn off.

If I do not feel comfortable with a situation then I will just tell you and we can either move to something else or part ways. I am actually really easy to get along with and do not get offended easily. By all means just ask me flat out if it is not my thing I will tell you straight up and wish you the best. I am open to a ton of fetishes and I learn new ones all the time. If yours is something unique tell me about it I would enjoy learning something new. One of the major things I enjoy about being a phone sex operator is exploring human sexuality.

How To End A Call

This is not how you should end a call more of an exploration in what I have seen through the years and why at least to me they are all acceptable. When most people start using phone sex they get embarrassed and hang up without saying anything. When a phone sex operator first starts taking calls this can seem rude. To me it is not rude in anyway. We are hear to discuss something specific and when we are done you hang up. I have never taken offense to this. Now if you are calling me and asking me a question in which you do not like the answer I give you then I expect you to politely say something along the lines of you are not what I am looking for thank you for your time. That is just common courtesy to me.

Other people want to talk for a few seconds to a minutes after they have orgasm-ed this is completely acceptable as well. It is okay and greatly appreciated for you to say thank you for taking my call. It doesn’t matter what you say it is just really nice when you say something.

I have also had guys that just hang up during the call and send a sweet note and a tribute (tips are awesome).

While the pso’s that have been around for awhile do not expect things we all liked to be surprised just because. If you get overwhelmed or embarrassed that is okay you can always say hey thanks for the great call when you play again.

Differences In Dominant Women

People by nature will always react to a situation differently. Also, some of us are lifestyles while others are professionals. There is a huge difference between how the two will behave and expect others to behave. I may not a sadist I do not enjoy inflicting harm on people that I care for. I could easily hurt someone that I have little to no feelings for. I want a submissive that craves to be my good boy/girl I want them to desire more than anything to please me in every way. I do not want to be a drill Sargent I expect my submissive to learn my subtle cues and react to them and even before them. While I enjoy cbt (cock and ball tease/torture) it is not because I want to cause pain I want my submissive to have an intense orgasm that I have complete control over. I do enjoy humiliation if the other person is into it. I have no desire to cause someone mental harm just to gain a few minutes of pleasure from it. Spanking for me is part of a huge picture of submissive/dominant engagement. I am not into just spanking to spank. I greatly enjoy spanking a bottom and then gently touching it to make it feel very nice. There are women out there who would never have sex with a submissive and that is their thing. For me I enjoy using my submissives cock if it is something that will bring me pleasure. I like a well built relationship that extends beyond the bedroom and control that comes with subtle-ness. A raised eyebrow sends my submissive scampering to me. A touch on the arm stops them right where they are. Dedicating their every free moment to giving me what I strongly desire. I want my submissives working hard to fulfill their own dreams though. I get bored with people that do not have a driving force. To me submissives are equal and they choose to make their Mistress/Master as happy as they can. They want to be there. They are not forced to do anything pleasing eagerly brings them the most pleasure. Mistress/Masters are all unique in what they desire just as submissives are driven by their individual desires.

Orgasm Control Denial

There are many reason why a man might be into orgasm control. There are some men that want a woman to have complete control over every aspect of their sexuality. There are others that just enjoy the build up to a very hard explosive orgasm the kind that men of the modern world rarely have anymore. There are so many ways of having an orgasm in today’s modern world. It is not the same world where a man has to seek out a way instead he can obtain it on his phone or any given convenient store. There is something to be said about having to wait and then being allowed to have a wonderful orgasm after being teased for extended amount of time.

Most men want to have an orgasm at some point they do not want to be forced into permanent celibacy. This makes up the vast majority of men who are into orgasm control.  There is another group of men though that crave a deeper sense of commitment to their women. They want their woman to completely deny them all orgasms. They do not want to be shut out emotionally they want to be given complete emotional support from a woman that they adore. The feel of a woman’s touch becomes more and more electrifying the longer a man is forced to not allowed to orgasm.

These men understand that the longer they are denied the more emotionally connected to the women in their lives. For a man that craves something beyond the quick release of orgasm a woman that is willing to make them work for everything. A woman who knows how to control a man through sensual ways can create a world that most women only dream about through the occasional meme. A man will do anything for a woman that lovingly keeps him on the edge.  A man that gives himself over in all ways soon learns to crave more. The want of an orgasm is far more powerful than any drug. I have spoken to many men who were given a taste of this soon want it beyond anything else they can have.

For men who have never felt this kind of control often start thinking about how a man can want this. Then after awhile they want it they crave it and start to seek out the one woman that can give them everything they desire.

Financial Domination

Financial domination is one of those fetishes that can be a lot of fun or it can be really annoying for the Mistress. Financial domination is like any other power play. It is suppose to run where by taking a man’s money (this is largely a mans fetish) it causes him anxiety which in turn is a turn on. The feel of the butterflys and the knowledge that he is losing so much causes him to have a huge orgasm. A lot of men like the idea of a woman that fully controls him through what she wants. This all about giving up that large degree of control. This game can be high stakes hundreds of dollars going out at a time or a small stakes game. The big thing is communicating with the Mistress where a man feels comfortable at.

The Mistress of course enjoys getting paid large amounts for her time. It is like an all paid shopping trip to the one store she never goes to. Most Mistresses are more than willing to do smaller stake plays as long as they know that is what they are suppose to do.

The issues come in when  a man does not explain what he wants or how he wants it. A Mistress will go into these scenarios with an understanding that she is dealing with $50 to $100 a time that is where most men start. If a man wants to start out smaller then the polite thing to do is just say so.  If a man can not afford to play then this is not something he should do. The man and the Mistress will be both disappointed in how this fantasy turns out if one is at one level and the other is at a completely different level. The biggest issue I have ran across with financial domination is the men either not understand the basic rules of this scenario or not respecting them.

If a man can not play by the rules of financial domination there are plenty of other things that can be done between Mistress and servant. These can be just as full filling as financial domination. It is not okay and it is rude to tell a Mistress you want to do a certain type of play and know at the beginning that you are unable to complete it to the end. It is one thing to try something new and it not work out another to try and take advantage of someone.