I have yet to have the fun of taking one of my sluts to a glory hole. I have talked to guys on the phone that were at them. I greatly enjoy getting pictures, videos and even being on the phone with a slut sucking cock for me. It is not the same thing as taking one of my sluts to a glory hole and forcing their head down onto whatever pops through that hole. I will be honest I thought for years that glory holes were things of porno movies. I didn’t believe they actually existed until I ran into a large number of guys that frequented them. Even then I was skeptical, that was till I started getting pictures and videos the more I got from all over the country the more I started to hey there might be some truth to this. I also went hey it sure would be fun to take a slut to one of these and make him suck cock for me. I have noticed that most to the ones that have anything decent size frequenting them are generally in the big cities where Atlanta seems to very popular for glory hole activity. I have always enjoyed making my sluts suck cock and the thought of having them have no control over what comes through that hole is fascinating to me. I also like the thought of me having no control either. So maybe it is a huge cock that any of my sluts would desire or perhaps it is something on the smaller side that makes them feel the full brunt of the humiliation. I often enjoy making my sluts suck cock smaller than themselves that is a full power play. Even though they are larger they are still less of a man and more of a cock sucker than the tiny pathetic cock in front of them.
I would really enjoy hearing about your experiences at a glory hole if you have had them. If you have never gone but fantasized about it tell where your thoughts wonder too. Most of the time guys that think about this are not bisexual it has nothing to do with attraction. Actually most the guys that think or desire a trip to the glory hole are completely turned off by a cock. What they are craving is the power play of being forced to do something they would never do on their own.
There is something fun about tying a man up and teasing his cock over and over for an extended amount of time. One of my favorite things to do is take a man out while I am wearing my thigh highs, high heels and a very short tight dress. That way I can tease him with my soft silky thigh highs on my feet all night long. The entire time telling him how much I enjoy the thought of taking him home and tying him up for my pleasure with those thigh highs that he is touching just now.
I have spoken to a number of men through the years that the thought of being my complete servant in this manner turns them on in great ways. The thought of a woman taking what she wants in the way she wants it is something that a number of men do not get very often. Women often do not use the power that they have and do not understand how they can control a man in ways that want him to be controlled. A man that is forced to come on a woman’s time in either a fast or even a very extended matter.
Men have told me through the years that having the power of their own orgasm taken from them is a very powerful power exchange. Most men that I have spoken to enjoy being tied up so they are only allowed to look down and see their penis rock hard and standing at attention. They are not allowed to touch themselves in any way instead they are can just watch their penis twitch and the balls swelling. A woman can then do with both as she wishes for some this means using a bit of pain as a persuasion to her wants and desires. For others like myself I enjoy more sensual play a tease and denial of orgasm until I feel that he is going to explode to completely.
Many a man tends to think of the longer versions of play as being more controlling but a quick forced ejaculation when a man wishes to play longer can be just as controlling. The feel of orgasm makes a man want more and a woman enjoys the feel of her complete control over a man.
Have you ever thought about having someone tie you down and force you to ejaculate for them? Have you ever thought about a little phone play of a woman telling you how to play? Tell us all about your thoughts on this in the comments below.
So I really do not plan these out they just kind of come to me right before my fingers touch the keys. Today I had a call come in on a spanking line with a gentleman I had done a call with a long while back. I will be honest if you call me regularly I will remember your voice and the basics of what we talked about. This was a very short call like one minute but the length of the call is not what I want to talk about. This gentleman asks me my name hmm you are calling a listing that is Diane Callaway and my name is Diane go figure. He then proceeds to ask me am I dominate or submissive. I tell him that I am very dominant this question does not upset me in any way there are a lot of people out there that are switches and besides I like it when guys ask me questions it gives me insight into them. He then proceeds to tell me that he remembers talking to me (which at this point in the call I do not remember him). He goes on to tell me that I balled him out because I told him that I did not believe in a “warm up” spanking. OHHH yes know I remember you I think to myself as the light bulb goes off in my head. It had probably been at least a month since I spoke this guy and it too was a short conversation though it was a wee bit longer that this call.
We get to the point of what I wish to talk about and that is warm up spanking. I do not believe in them at least not in the way that he wanted it. He wanted to be able to tell me how to give him a spanking how many swats he should get and how hard. The whole point of a spanking is to punish in a submissive dominate setting. Now I do understand that sometimes we spank to tease or to entice a sexual experience, but that is not we were discussing here. He was wanting a punishment spanking where he got to dictate the punishment and it does not work that way with me. If my submissive has done something that I feel warrants a spanking then I decide the details of that punishment. I am not going to beat someone until they are bleeding I am not that kind of person. I will however paddle a bottom until it is good and red. I will spank at my speed giving the skin time to recover so that the next swat is felt as much as the first swat.
I guess this particular gentleman was still upset over not being allowed to top from the bottom and he hung up before I could ask him more questions.
One of our more popular themes of movies is extreme closeup. Those movies that are shot from a point of view right between our legs. Where it looks like you laying right there and being treated to our beautiful pink pussy. I have asked about this before and the answer I get is always a variation of the same. When a movie is shot with extreme close up there is nothing to distract from the pussy. Also, most men feel that a woman’s vagina is very beautiful. They are pulled in and enticed by it. I do not think that many women know the power they have over men when it comes to their breasts, their bottoms, and their vagina. While for men most the time from what I have been told and from my personal experience as a bi woman the smell is just intoxicating. Granted we can not capture the smell of a woman through video. We can shoot movies that bring you in and capture you with our pussies. These movies let you see how wet we get while we tease ourselves. They also let you know see each fold of skin that makes up our pussy. You can lay there and watch our holes get tighter and tighter the more excited we become. For some men that is a huge turn on. If you are into this type of stimulation I would really like to hear what it is that turns you on personally. Is this something that you only feel the draw to when you are watching a movies or is it something that you crave in a real life one on one scenario? If you are not into this and want to chime in and say what about it turns you off then please do that as well.
I talk to a lot of men that enjoy having their cocks caged or want to find a key holder to control their cocks. Some day I will write an article about what pushes a man to want this. In this article I wanted to highlight a forum/website that one of my caged men sent me. This is an awesome site from what I can see it is for men only which is great there is nothing wrong with that. The site gives a lot of resources for men that are caged by their significant others or mistresses. If this is something you are interested in take a look at the site, give me a call and lets talk or do both.
As a dominate woman I have been asked in the past how I could possibly give a guy a blow job because a number of people feel that is a submissive act. I have always thought that blowjobs were actually power play. That is a very sensitive thing to have sliding past very sharp powerful teeth. Having those very sensitive balls under my control while I tease a cock is a very controlling thing. For men blow jobs seem to be a utopia of sensation. It is a very intimate act for both people. Now for a submissive girl she may take the situation from a different aspect she may feel that she is being utterly submissive. That is the wonderful thing about power play is that it can be utilized either way. There are some things I have never really understood and that is gagging. Not sure why a guy would want to feel and hear a girl gag to me that is just a horrid sound. I have always been able to take a cock pretty deep down my throat so it was never a huge issue for me personally. I really enjoy watching a man while I am teasing his cock and balls working him up and then backing it back down over and over until he is just begging for me to let him come. When it comes to blow jobs most people think of a girl on her knees and a man standing over her. I have found that most men do not like this position if they are going to truly enjoy what is happening to them. Most the time laying down or sitting is far more enjoyable than having their knees locked and trying to maintain themselves vertically. Unfortunately a lot of American women are raised to think that cocks are dirty and should not be played with in this manner. It is pushed that only dirty girls suck cock which is really sad because it can cause a man to think that he is not that important to his girl when she refuses to do reasonable sexual things. Even if a girl is not into swallowing at least showing some attention to his cock in a very intimate way will help strengthen their relationship.
There are some people that really enjoy into having all control taken from them. Most of us are into having an orgasm and enjoy the relaxed time after for these other types of people it is the full extent of being put under someone elses wants and desires. I enjoy tying people up and giving them a hard intense orgasm after teasing for a very long time of course. The feel of someone straining against ropes they are unable to get out of is a lot of fun. Men especially do not know what to do when they are completely bound and their cock is tied up. The nice thing about a bound cock is how super hard it gets. That cock turns such a pretty shade of purple and those balls fill up all the way. Then to tie a man down so that the only thing he can do is watch his cock and hope that I allow him to come. It is amazing how quickly a man learns how to beg when the one thing he wants is a hard orgasm. Bound orgasms are not for everyone some find it beyond exciting and for others the frustration is too much and they will not enjoy the moment at all. I would advice starting slow and seeing how much your partner enjoys because you do not have to go completely out on the first play session. You can start with just tying up a guys cock or a girls legs and then with each play session step it up slowly to a point that is pushing their limits and allowing them to enjoy the sensations that are happening to them. If a person is not into being tied up do not do it acting in such a matter can completely ruin a relationship. I am not talking about someone that is just not sure I am talking about someone that has a fear or an extreme dislike of being tied up. There are plenty of other fun sexual things that you can do that does not require tying someone so leave your options open. For those that like to be imbolized there are tons of options available. Pantyhose and rope are some of my favorites. Alot of people enjoy handcuffs and they are easy to use. There is also sex tape which is reusable and fun. You can use plastic wrap (think Dexter). What a fun thing to try out and see how it goes.
I will admit that most of my exposer to this is from the reading of sex novellas. I have had a few people over the years talk about this but not many. Most of the time when it comes to aliens it is a male alien with a human female of course a large phallus is always involved. I have had a couple of men that were into a female alien that forces them to perform sexual favors or to manipulated into doing things for her with little or no say in the act. I have even had a few men that wanted an alien that was both female and male that force them to be violated because that is what the alien wishes to have. This is a pretty normal fetish is most ways though the details may be a little different. In what I have seen of the fetish it is a standard exchange of power with one person either being manipulated or forced into a full surrender of sexual desire. What I do find interesting is most of the time in my personal experience the color of the alien is blue. Now this could be because of such movies as Xmen influencing our culture and sexual desires even I will admit that was a very hot scene in that movie. It could be that green is just not a very sensual color to most people and blue is a lot more appealing. There are a lot of things that could come into play and sometimes people just like what they like with no explanation. In most cases this is a fun fetish that takes place in the mind more than in an actual play out of events. We see this in a lot of modern movies, art, and culture. There are a lot of very sensual aliens in movies very feminine in nature large breasts and substantial hips. We as a society seem to place sexual desires onto a lot of different object so aliens are not different in that. There are a lot of short stories out there dealing with aliens both from the male alien taking over a female subject and a female alien forcing herself onto a male. If you are looking for something fun and different to indulge into then find some of these stories and allow your mind to run wild.
So this past week I put a picture up on twitter which you can see below. For anyone that has known me for awhile then it is well known that testicular cancer and prevention is something that I strongly believe in. There are a number of reasons why I feel that talking about testicular cancer is very important there is so much attention to breast cancer for women and very little attention to this very important cancer. Now I actually did pay attention in biology so I understand that cancer can not be completely prevented it can be controlled and put into remission if caught early. This is something that I will talk about a lot as I feel it is something that should be openly discussed. So take some time and make this a monthly ritual of getting to know your testicles how they feel so that if you do have an issue you will find it early on.
There are a lot of guys that are into being given an assignment to accomplish with having to prove they actually completed what they were told to do. I see this a lot in sissy guys or guys that enjoy cross dressing. They want to be sent out to buy an article of clothing or something girly. I will be the first to admit this can be a whole lot of fun. I have done this with a lot of guys from little things such as a new thing of nail polish to panties and lots of other items as well. For a guy new to dressing up having to buy something at the mall go into the restroom and put it on is a very erotic experience. Most guys would never tell anyone their deepest secret especially someone they have the possibility of meeting again. This allows them to explore a little and have some safety of keeping their secret. Now some guys like the thought of including a stranger into their assingments the real issue with this is not know how a person will react to what is going on. I have done it a few times with a woman when I was around but not something I really want to do on the phone. I have had it go great but I have also had it go really bad and she become completely offended which ruins the whole fantasy for everyone. Most the time I try to avoid that just because it is to volatile.
I am often asked what kind of assignment will be given and it really just varies from person to person. If it is a sissy I generally start out with something small and simple then build from there. I do not do the same thing each time so it can be anything from lipstick, nail polish, panties, girly socks and the list goes on and on. I do not just do assignments for sissy’s I have used them for a number of different fetishes to add a little bit of drama even when I am not around. The reason an assignment works for both the men and myself is because it keeps them thinking about me. It gives them a thrill when the complete what they are told to do and lets them explore their desires in a different manner than just talking about it and masturbating. If you are interested in trying an assignment give me a call and lets talk about what you are into so we can play.