Fall is here and one tradition I started about five years ago was growing out my underarms and my hoochie. It all started because some of my callers were interested in underarm hair. I had never thought about before they asked but because I enjoy a great adventure I thought why not give it a shot. It might have started for you all but my husband soon started talking about how much he enjoyed it. I only keep it in the fall and it is a tradition I plan on keeping. One thing I have noticed is that despite what people think my underarms do not smell and they are less sweaty. Women often underestimate the power our scent has on a partner. We can make our partners do all kinds of fun things by utilizing what is naturally occurring to our bodies. There is an erotic side to having soft furry armpits. When they are blown on or lightly touched it sends shivers all through my body. I like when someone nuzzles into them. The most important thing I have discovered with having my armpits grown out is not to wear a lot of deodorants it is not needed and tastes nasty if someone kisses on them. When it comes to my hairy cunt I like the curls. I tend to let it grow out for about a month and then take a pair of scissors to the just the lips. I keep them a bit shorter than the upper portion which I let grow out completely. Having my lips sucked on or even lightly nibbled on has always been a huge turn for me. But when they are hairy there is just something different about them. I like to keep things different so having them be hairy all the time is not a way I would keep my pussy. I enjoy the feel of a tongue running all the way up my clit as it brushes up through those curls. I am not even sure why we girls thought we had to shave things off the way we do all the time. In the summer when bikinis are tight and shirts are sleeveless it is one thing. In the fall and winter, the cooler weather gives us the freedom to do things because we want to. In the last few years there has come the “Shaveless November” I know a number of men who enjoy the thought of their women letting things grow to a more natural state. The hair also changes how our bodies smell and from what I have been told at least in my case that is a really good thing. What about you? Do you enjoy when a woman lets her natural body hair grow a bit? If its something that you enjoy what about it makes it special to you? Have you ever talked a woman into growing her hair out and did it change how she smelled to you?
When we are young we think of busting a boy in his balls as a means of complete control. We try to tell those around us how we would never do such a thing. In our secret deviant thought, there is always the want to find out what our feet feel like against the softness of squishy balls. Respectable women around us girls are quick to say how a “lady” would never do such a thing. We grow up being told all these things. Then there comes the day when we finally meet up with a man unlike all the others we have been around. This man enjoys the control of a woman and wants to be at our complete mercy or non-mercy. If we are lucky he will tell us all the dirty secrets that have plagued him through the years. A man that will confess how he was an obnoxious boy that pushed one girl too far. She did what all us girls would never do she smashed her tiny foot right into his balls. Of course, this incident is seared into his mind in a way that will never go away. At the time of the debacle, he screams in agony and despises her for putting him on the floor curled up in a fetal position. Something strange happens as the years progress forward. This man grows older and no other woman behaves like “her.” She becomes the woman that he compares all others to and they are lacking. He wants a woman that will own him and will make him do things that are uncomfortable. His confession leads women like me to a freedom we never knew. We are able to take this man and create the world we wanted. The desire of a submissive will always rule a dominant woman. We want to be served and desire a servant who craves our attention.
The day that a dominant woman meets a submissive man is a perfect day for both. The women are allowed to do the things they always wanted to do and with men who desire to have their balls set on fire by a ladies foot, they get everything wanted for all those years. Ballbusting is an art learned it is not about pain over and over though people less educated believe it to be. Instead of ball busting is about teasing, the anticipation of what is to come. The longer we string out the final act the more of a turn on it is for both the dominant and the submissive. There is a level of humiliation to be had in the cat and mouse game. Most of the time it is playful back and forth one that is hard to understand by those outside the adventure. Pleasure is often a mixture of pain and joy for those that choose to go past the vanilla can never return to sex in the same way. The power of a woman is often underused.
The words erotica and erotic are often thrown around to mean different things. When it comes to us on a personal level these words can have very different meanings from individual to individual. I have been working in adult industries for over ten years now. I have had a wonderful time talking with men and women about the things that turn them on. The mainstream porn sites rarely put out content that would appeal to the people I have interacted with throughout all these years. This could be I attract a certain kind of people and that would make sense. On the other aspect, it could be the producers think they know what people want without actually knowing what people want. I can remember years ago when porn had some type of story most the time these were cheesy but at least it was something we could follow. About ten years ago things starting shifting to a hardcore sexual loop. I have read or watched adult content since I was a teenager when the industry starting shifting to just looping sex scenes I lost interest. Erotica to me is the work up a sexual act. I like the interaction between myself and my partner the push and pull of teasing that makes the moment exciting. When I read or write a scene I want to draw out those moments. There is something magical about how we react to those around us in a sexual manner. This interaction is what made sex so exciting when we were young. Most of us feel that spark of such simple actions as holding hands or having our skin touch another person. When we are older we want to bring that electricity back into our lives. After we have been with someone for years that spark lessens in intensity. For some people, this can result in dangerous or destructive behavior that breaks down full relationships. Erotica to me is meant to be a safe way to explore areas that we want to think about but not physically explore. It can be part of a healthy relationship where a couple shares fantasies together instead of searching outside the commitment to each other. Erotica is not about scenes but more about feelings. Intense orgasms are built through the mental aspect of sexuality. I prefer to read erotica instead of watching it and when I read it I want to feel that the scene is slowed down allowing me to place myself in that situation. Most erotica rushes through the buildup to get to the hardcore sex scene. As I am writing I want to be able to give my reader something different just as intense but with more emphasis on how the participants got to that point. Our world has evolved into rushing into everything with this rushing we have lost part of our sexuality this has left a lot of wanting for interactions that we just do not get. Erotica to me should be about slowing things down and letting a scene play out in a way we often want but rarely receive.
When it comes to women’s beautiful bottoms there is a difference between what men enjoy. I, Diane was born with a fairly large bottom. I can remember when I was younger being told I had better watch what I ate because it would go straight to my bottom. Luckily I was blessed with people around me who greatly enjoy a rather large bubble butt. I do work hard to keep it from getting out of control. I am familiar with about every squat ever invented. They are not my favorite thing to do but a girl’s gotta stay in charge of a situation. Chilly, on the other hand, has had a rather small bottom that I can cup in my hands. Her bottom keeps trying to run away. She is familiar with squats because she likes that tuck. Those of us who enjoy the graceful beauty of a woman’s behind is familiar with the tuck. Both of us enjoy the concept of having our bottoms worshiped by another person. Chilly is submissive and enjoys when I turn her into my slut for the afternoon. She is very good at rubbing that round bottom of mine. Letting her fingers trail over those soft cheeks and kissing that voluptuousness right in front of her face. Whether it is a man down underneath me or a gorgeous woman; being dominant I enjoy a slow time of kissing that bottom of mine. I like to be on top sitting down on my submissive’s face those cheeks of mine on each side of their face. This put’s the submissive’s tongue lined up perfectly with what they should be concentrating on. When it comes to ass worship slow is the best speed. Time should be well spent on rubbing those cheeks moving on to kissing all over. I do not want an inch of my bottom to missed by those eager lips. After I am very turned on that is when a tongue should be used to tease that long luxurious crack and even down to that tight little hole. I have been asked through the years if I enjoy anal and yes I do but only after enough time has been invested into really getting me worked up. Chilly enjoys being under someone else’s control though she can be a switch when caught in the right mood. She enjoys being bent over with that bottom way up in the air. The act of being exposed and teased is a huge turn on for her. Being pinned down and she would beg to have lips and tongue used to turn her on even more. A hard pounding is something that gets her wet in all the right places. How worked up do you get when it comes to a woman’s bottom? What are some of your favorite things to do or be made to do with those curves? Have you ever had a woman dominate you with her ample booty? What is your favorite shape for a woman’s behind?
When it comes to sissification, there are some critical steps that every sissy must follow. First comes putting on lipstick yes there is some other makeup, but the lipstick portion is significant. While red is always my favorite color for a lot of sissy’s is pink. It would be easy to make fun of guys picking a traditional girly shade, but there is something to be said about rituals. I rarely wear pink but enjoy putting it on a sissy to show take them across the steps of becoming what they are inside. The second step is panties us girls have such a selection of things to wear. There is a wide variety of fabrics and endless types of panties. It is a rabbit hole that a sissy can find them falling endlessly. Then, of course, there is toenails and the ritual of painting them.
Toes seem to be a dirty little secret that becomes an intense ritual for my sissies and me. It is something they can do during the ordinary course of a day. They can wear their pretty toenails while they are at the office. Something that is even more fun to do is have a sissy wear their toenail polish while out with their boys. It is intense to have them hide this under socks while doing something very manly. Making them send a picture of their toes done in my color when their buddies are sitting outside the bathroom is intense for both of us.
The color does not matter it is all about having a secret that he does not want anyone to know about yet wants everyone to know. The thrill comes from the thought of getting caught. Getting caught in a non controlled situation is a letdown. That never goes the way our fantasy wants it to go. Sissification is all about the build-up and the imagination. That is why toes nails and nail checks are always one of the first things I make my sissy do for me. From the thrill of having to purchase something so small but meaningful to learning how to put it on correctly the ritual is what it is all about.
Ever thought about being under the control of a woman tell your story. Where does your fantasy take you and under what circumstances where you made to make your toenails pretty. If you have yet to have that pleasure what is your fantasy of being forced to be girly in this or other ways? I would enjoy hearing all about especially the ritual portion and what that means to you.
This weeks talk is about body worship specifically Ass Worship. I enjoy all kinds of body worship what woman that takes full control does not enjoy someone giving them their undivided attention. Take a listen then tell me what you enjoy. Please join me on Patreon and get this recording as well as many more.
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I have always been dominant my whole life I do not know how to be anything but what I already am. It is so much fun, to be honest with the world. While I enjoy being nice it is my preferred way of dealing with the world someone screws me over and a whole different person comes to the surface. Join me as I talk about being dominant and being a woman in today’s world. Please join me on Patreon where you will have access to all kinds of new and fun stuff.
There are many types of dominant women and just as many types of submissive men. When it comes to men that enjoy being feminization the thought of ropes is probably not something they wish to explore. Women who enjoy placing men in situations where their manhood is stripped away would never dream of using ropes. Tying someone in firm white cotton rope, while a common practice in BDSM is about removing the ability of movement and pushing someone towards objectification. Feminization, on the other hand, is about taking away manhood and pushing a man towards more thinking not less. Women like myself desire a man to concentrate on the details. We want a man to notice how the fabric feels against his skin. The smell of the female products changes how a man starts to see himself. In other BDSM situations, it is more about taking things away then adding things to. Men in high power often want to have things taken away control, sensations, and decisions. I have played on both sides of this it is enjoyable for me to take apart and also to push boundaries. I often put this experience in the expression of “sometimes in life we push, and sometimes we pull.” I pull men towards feminization and push them towards submission.
When we tie a man up in pantyhose, we are pulling him towards feminization. Pantyhose are deceptive in what can be accomplished with them. On the first touch, pantyhose can seem very delicate, and in the single layer, they are fragile. Placing a man in pantyhose making him wear them is a reminder of how the fabric feels. Nylons are silky when brushed one way, but if swept the opposite they are scratchy. Wearing hose all night letting a man play with them, hear them touch against themselves, and the smell that is unique can be a tease situation. Taking a man home to brush those hose against the skin makes the skin more sensitive. Then taking those pantyhose to use them in tying a man up. He thought he was going to be allowed to use his penis. In feminization, the most important step is removing the power of the penis. Pantyhose are lovely for taking a man to a new state of mind of being a feminized playtoy. Those soft silky hose are beautiful in that they are strong when utilized to keep a man in awkward positions.
If I want a man to step out of his head, I will tie him up with rope. On the other hand, if my complete desire to have a man tangled up in his mind nylons become the proper choice. The more he struggles in trying to get away the tighter those bindings become. Rope the knots stay fairly loose a person can work to get themselves out of them at least the kind we utilize during BDSM play. Pantyhose knots increase in tightness the more one pulls against them. I will always have scissors on hand but only use them at my discretion.