Total power exchange refers to the D/s relationship dynamic where the Dominant is now responsible for all decisions. In My case, I am referring to someone who is serving Me and in the course of Our time together agrees to abide by My rules and commands. This is a bit different from an Absolute Power Exchange that I have with personal slaves. Personal slaves submit and serve on a much deeper level and I require much more authority on many aspects of their life. Some of these aspects include chastity, sexual activities and how they spend their time.
Total Power Exchange
Also referred to as TPE this exchange of power where I now have control and authority is paramount for My excitement and enjoyment.
First and foremost, it is all about the level of control which should be no surprise to anyone! The more control I have, the more exciting it is for Me. I am not talking just about physical control but the controlling of a submissives thoughts, desires and actions! It is all about the reprogramming and manipulating and seducing someone into doing what I want them to! After all, the secret to domination is making you want what I want!
I am not referring to beating someone into submission. In reality, almost anyone can do that. I am referring to the mental and intellectual effort that it takes to get inside someone’s head! When that happens, well, that is where the true power and control is!
There are a variety of ways that I can accomplish this level of control. One is by erotic hypnosis and mind control which can be a very powerful tool. Two is by seduction. Women have been seducing men since the dawn of time. By listening as well as reading a submissives body language I can learn just what excites him and arouses him to the point that he will do anything that I command. Learning his fetishes such as leather, high heels, stockings, I can use this knowledge to dominate, seduce and manipulate.
As I tell My submissives, total power exchange is about complete surrender. Surrendering yourself and giving up your personal power. Letting go and submitting to My wants, needs and desires. There is truly a freedom in this surrender.