There are a lot of guys out there that enjoy what has been commonly called the girlfriend experience. For those that are not familiar with this may be very confused on what exactly this is. To be honest it can take a number of forms. The most common I am familiar with is an ongoing relationship where a man calls me to talk about things going on in his life. These conversations can be every day things such as when he has something bad or good happen. I have been told I am a very good listener and men really enjoy that I can talk about pretty much any subject. I have men that enjoy an intelligent woman that keeps up with what is going on in the world. Most of the conversations are just normal every day discussions. A large number of men just want someone to talk to. They may travel for work and are out of town a large amount of the time. There is also the sad reality that a lot of women do not talk to their men. I see this in everyday world where women cut the men out of their lives. They may talk over them a lot or fuss at them whenever they do something different from what a woman would do it.
This is not to say we don’t have some phone sex because we generally do play sometimes and talk other times. These type of relationships do grow with time. Of course we are a lot more casual that what most men will deal with. I don’t get upset if we do not talk for awhile. I understand that the nature of our relationship is one that has to be fluid. I will admit I do grow to care for a lot of these men as people. Some of them I have regarded as friends in a casual but in depth way. The interesting part to me is how much I tend to learn about these men over the course of time. How in depth our talks can become. I learn about their jobs, their dreams, their wants, and even their fears. The girlfriend experience is probably one of the most fulfilling parts of what I do. I find people fascinating and the insight these men let me have about who they are and what drives them keeps me going. It is almost like I am given permission to have an in depth look without all the other relationship responsibilities.