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Safe, Sane, Consensual

One of the really great things about playing online or phone sex is that we can have the fantasy we desire. I can do really horrid awful things to your testicles as many times as I like. There is no real world consequences and we can replay that scene over and over. In the real world that is not the case. When you play with someone it should be something that grows in intensity over time. You need a high level of trust that the person who is in charge will always have your best interest at the fore thought of their mind. We have all known that one person who you never were quite sure what they were going to do from one moment to the next.  While this is great for fantasy having real life issues that never go away is not so great. You want the person you are playing with to be sane that is an important attribute for them to have. Safety is a huge thing when it comes power exchange there are some basic rules and common sense goes a huge ways in this. Being set up for whatever can happen. A way to untie or cut someone free is crucial for any form of bondage play especially when dealing with rope, pantyhose, tape or other form of slow release. Is the person you are with sober because having someone tied up and passing out is completely unacceptable as well as a scary way to spend a night. Recreational ingestion of substances should be left to nights where both parties have freedom of movement. Non consensual is a wonderful fantasy that a lot of people have being kidnapped by an evil mistress is something I hear a lot from guys. This is never okay in the real world though because going to jail after a night of play does not go as planned will ruin far more than one night. There are ways to add elements of crossing these lines after a very large amount of trust has been earned it is never okay to do with a new person no matter what the terms of the relationship are. A professional mistress should know better and a lifestyler should respect their partner enough to never want to endanger that relationship. It can be hard to find someone that plays in the same circles you play in so respecting their wants, safety, and their limits is always the most important element.

Have you ever had a play session go bad? Tell me about it in the comments below.

Expanding My Circles

I tend to get bored in life I get tired of doing the same thing over and over. So for the past couple of months I have been looking into affiliate marketing. I will admit that at this moment I am completely lost. As far as the adult side it seems a little more like a lot confusing and these people that work in this industry give up NO secrets so it is a fight to even learn anything. This all started after Niteflirt decided to change their whole set up. It used to be that if we girls/guys worked hard, put our time in, and worked our customer list we would get decent traffic (people coming to see us). Then Niteflirt started this whole bidding thing along with other changes. So I am no longer in my guys favorites list like I used to me. I am no longer at a place on the list by my hard work. Nope I am BURIED I mean like hundreds of places down from where I used to be. The reason for this is because I refuse to PAY niteflirt to put me in a decent spot. So because of all that I decided to look into advertising venues to get me out there. Yeah not so easy when you work in the adult industry everything is pay to play. I really dont make THAT much money I do okay but not great. From there everyone was screaming affiliate that is where the money is at but I have yet to find that damn Leprechaun. It is fun to learn new stuff and explore new things so I am still hanging in there to see what I can do. 

Role Plays

Okay let me start off by saying some of the most awesome calls I have had have been role play calls. Let me also say some of the WORST calls I have had guess what have been role play calls. To a customer if you want to do a role play that is awesome but think it out before you call. If you just call a girl up and tell her ‘surprise me’, ‘I do not know’, ‘do what ever you want’, or my personal favorite ‘do what turns you on’ I can guarantee you will be disappointed. First off unless we have talked ALOT I have no clue what turns you on or turns you off. If you ask me what I enjoy well either I will pick something that you have no interest in or something that completely turns you off. For example one of my favorite things is strap on and forced bi if you are into that we will have a great time, however if you are looking for the naughty neighbor next door you are now completely unhappy with me. It is not fair to me nor to you if you do not have an idea with what you want. I have been told so many times that I am awesome at taking a basic story line and turning it into a great fun time. I can not pull something out of thin air though and a lot of times that is what is seems like guys try to do. If you will take a few moments to think out what you are wanting to enjoy and then take a few moments like maybe 3 minutes to give me or any other operator what is running through your head it can completely change the experience for you. When I ask you what you have been thinking about it is because I want to know I am not killing time I am trying to figure out how to make this experience the best it can be for you and for me.