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What is a Life Styler?

I have been working on the internet since around 2007/2008 before that I was just what most people would have thought of as a normal person. I worked in the corporate world and had for a long time. To the outside world I was just a wife. However since the time I had left home I had been having threesomes, playing with s&m, and cuckolding. I was doing it because I just had the urges and wanted to explore my sexuality. My husband enjoyed it and so did the people we were bringing into our lives. Most the stuff we did we did not even have a name for it. It was simply a matter of hey this feels good so lets do it some more. I have never been ashamed of my sexuality nor have a skirted it. I have always been that wife that other men were envious of because I would do the things that they could only read of in Penthouse Forum. When we started getting into the internet side it was because of practical reasons my job was ending there was not a lot of work close to where I lived and the money was an improvement from where we were. I started to become more and more curious about other people and with that came lots of reading. I began to understand that what we were doing for fun was also a big part of other peoples lives or their imagination. I also started to understand how much women do not allow themselves to be sexual creatures. Society has created a scenario that women should always be ashamed and coerced into doing things. I have never been that type of person I am nto going to say that I have always enjoyed everything I have done because somethings seem much better on paper than in person.

For me a lifestyler is someone that does sexual things because they are driven to do them not because they are simply making money off them. I have made good money off of my sexual desires and I am in no way ashamed of that. I have spoken with a lot of men that want something but can never have it. I give them someone who understands that pull of sexuality. I also give them an outlet to explore things that for one reason or another they are unable to do so with their significant other. These men are not always heterosexual either just because a man is homosexual does not mean he has a great communication relationship with the person he is involved with.

A lifestyler understands the struggle of finding and coming to terms with the less socially acceptable parts of sexuality because we have been through those struggles. We are able to communicate on a deeper level because while we may not have tried xyz we have tried things that turned us on while making us unsure of ourselves at the same time. I do this because I enjoy it and I will only do it so long as I enjoy it once the thrill of exploration with strangers is gone then I am gone. In the end my own sense of who I am is far more important my own want for a specific lifestyle will always come first over money.

Long Time Virgins

I have spoken to a number of men through the years who are virgins and have never had a sexual encounter with anyone. I have also spoken to men that have never had sexual encounters that were  not paid for.  I have also dated women that were virgins into their 20’s and knew women in their 30’s that never had sexual relations.  For some people there is other pressing matters in their lives such has careers, family,  or personal lack of self confidence. There are men that need someone to talk to and they are lacking that in their lives.  That is one of the main reasons they enjoy talking to someone who does phone sex. It is not always about getting off but in a lot of ways they just want someone they can open up to. The big call centers offer a means of sexual gratification but one on one is not always possible because of how they are set up. With a person like myself that is self employed I may not be available 24/7 but I am someone that remembers past conversations.  We can build long lasting conversations and to some degree relationships.  This is not the same as a loving stable relationship with a person that is in one’s life because that is where they choose to be. However, the relationships built with someone like myself can be highly beneficial in their own right.  A lot of times people are celibate because of fetishes they do not feel comfortable showing their true sexual beings to potential mates due to the fear of rejection. A therapist can make someone feel like there is something wrong with them but talking to a “real” person that understands and does not judge can be a happy median.  It can a confidence builder for someone who has never had anyone to discuss these emotions with.

As discussed in “Confessions of an ‘Old’ Virgin” there are numerous feelings as to why someone would choose to remain celibate and most of them are misguided. Life tends to speed up on people and before they know it lots of time has passed and they have become complacent in where they are currently at.  Humans have this quirk about them  where when they get into a habit they tend to stay there even when that habit makes them miserable. Talking with a phone sex operator can help to break that cycle.

Ms Lexi Lala

Ms Lexi Lala

Had a great time with my friend Lexi over the last couple of days. She is like me a country girl. She came down and went deer hunting for a day (it was suppose to be a couple of days) but she got one the very first morning she went out. So we spent the next couple of days lounging around the house having fun and getting her stuff set up on Niteflirt. She is moving down close to me around the first of next month and I am super excited. She is professional dancer so some of you might know her from the clubs. Like me she is dominate and really enjoys butting bitch boys and girls in their place. Give her a call and have some fun with her. http://www.niteflirt.com/pid/26147803