I decided this week to talk about something that is a little strange to some people and that is financial domination. This is not the same thing as blackmail they are completely different things. Financial domination is when a man enjoys having his money taken from him. A number of my online friends like it when I taunt them and force them to push a button to make them send me money. It is a huge thrill to watch that money being ripped from them and put into my hands. I have a number of men that are into being “piggy boys” or having their wallets raped. I know for a lot of people they have a hard time understanding why someone would want this but for me it is really simple. Most of the men that are into being human atm’s work really hard and long hours. They are not slackers in any way and feel like their money is theirs. Like most fetishes the thrill comes from either taking or losing control of something that has impacted us greatly. For bank whores this is having the very thing they worked the hardest to get taken from them. It gives them an adrenalin rush and the more they lose the more it turns them on. Over the years I have had a few men that could not afford to play try this and it always ends up really badly. If a man is barely making it from paycheck to paycheck he will not feel a rush he will feel a panic which is a complete turn off. The men that can and do greatly enjoy this have the expendable funds it is all about the thrill to them. I will admit I like this too come on I get to buy me something special and nice and they get a huge sexual release. What more could a girl want! I will admit I do not get into blackmail I am not a vicious person in any way so gathering intel and threatening someone just does not go with my normal personality. I am not saying I can not be intentionally cruel I have been known to enjoy teasing, taunting and forcing a guy to comply….but that is a whole different story.
The fantasy of blackmail has come up a few times over the years and while I completely understand the thrill behind it this fantasy is one that very few sites actually allow a girl to do. I will not participate in the fantasy of blackmail for a number of reasons. Let’s go over the fun exciting parts first and then we will get into the reasons why I will not do this fantasy.
Everyone likes an adrenalin rush that is why scary movies and roller coasters are so popular. Blackmail is really just another way of getting that adrenalin rush. The act of giving out all of one’s information to someone you do not know is thrilling. The thought of being caught makes the butterflys start fluttering in one’s stomach. Trying to hide and keep a secret is a turn on to a lot of people. I understand that and get it. However there is a down side to all of this when guys start getting into blackmail they can quickly give out a lot of information now in todays world a little goes a long ways. I used to work in skip tracing I know how having 3 to 4 good pieces of information can give me a persons place of employment, current and past spouses, parents, neighbors, address, all property owned by them, arrest records, and scores of other pieces of the puzzle. Most of this can be obtained in literally minutes.
Most of us girls do this as a job we enjoy it have a great time with it but understand the boundaries. Even if we are lifestylers there are certain rules that apply here that may or may not apply in our personal play time. However, there are always girls out there that cross those lines. Girls that will actually call up wives, employers, and family just to get what they want. I can assure anyone that the fantasy of blackmail is a lot more appealing than the reality of blackmail. Now lets flip the tables here there are also a lot of guys out there that will tell a woman they want to get busted it is the ultimate thing for them the full thrill of it etc. When as they say the ‘metal meets the meat’ and they do get caught I have known girls that have gotten arrested (not saying prosecuted but it is still a nasty expensive hassle) because some guy gets caught and then says well I was blackmailed there was nothing I could do.
I always tell girls do not deduct money from some guys account, do not use team viewer, do not spend money from a card with someone else’s name on it. These are all things that can cause a lot of problems for a girl even if they have permission from the guy.
There are things I do enjoy such as raping a guys wallet, piggy play, financial domination, and other power exchange money games. These are a lot of fun and still give each party a sense of power exchange without the potential of life changing events.