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Chastity

Chastity is something that I talk about on niteflirt a lot. While most people would think of chastity in the form of a virgin girl with a belt on to protect her virginity this is rarely the case in the modern world. Most of the discussions I have are involving male chastity which is hugely popular. I am a fan of male chastity and if you look into my toy collection you will see a number of these fun devices. The reason I like it and a large number of men like it is because of the role reversal. This is very much about power exchange and having a man being submissive to a woman. The amount of chastity devices available is growing each year they generally come in hard plastic, silicone, and metal. I personally own hard plastic and metal. The metal ones look really scary but most men prefer them over the hard plastic ones. The plastic male chastity devices tend to pinch in ways that are just not fun. A well formed and well fitting metal device is comfortable to wear for extended times from what I have been told.  For a lot of men seeing a chain hanging from a woman’s neck or ankle is a turn on.  It reminds them that they are hers and she will only let them have satisfaction when she desires it. This can be a really good thing for a number of relationships if the woman is attentive.  Teasing a man can spike his interest in the relationship he is in. If a woman puts a little bit of effort into it she can easily wrap him around her finger and he will beg to be let out of that cage. The fun thing about chastity is that you keep someone on the edge for an extended amount of time. They want to be there because they are getting attention, but not getting off. The vast majority of men want a woman that is sweetly in control. They want a woman that makes them feel like they have to work to get her but that she desires them more than anything else. Men want to be desired but not necessarily given everything without working for it. Most women make the mistake of not showing a man she wants him badly. She behaves in a way that conveys indifference and that is never good for any relationship. What about you have you ever thought of chastity and if so in what ways? Tell me in the comments below.

Fetish Claustrophilia Tight Places But Not Bound

If someone came up to you and said they were into Claustrophilia you would probably have no idea what they were talking about. However all of us have experienced the sensations these people crave as a sexual release though we may not all remember those sensations. Think of how we swaddle babies to calm them these tight sensations are pleasurable to a number of people.

Claustrophilia is a sexual desire to be in an enclosed tight space. These can be a box, coffin, vinyl sheeting, even rope if done right. This is a fetish and those that have this fetish should be able to explore it in a very safe very controlled enviroment. If it is not handled correctly then it can become dangerous to the point of being deadly.  These tight restrictions can cause some issues such as breathing issues and circulation problems. Such things need to be considered before and during play time.

From what I have discovered through my reading most people enjoy the slowing down of time while being confined. The way they are forced to focus on each breath. The way that they feel as all outside sensations leave their skin and they become completely aware of just their own bodies.  The tighter and more restrictive it becomes the more of a “high” their brain gives them and the harder their sexual release is. Like a number of fetishes this is mental release not a so much a physical one. Most of sexual satisfaction is mental from past readings it is something of the nature of 75% mental 30% physical.

There are a number of companies that make things such as sleep sacks and vinyl sheets that enclose a person to the point of very little to no movement. With this restriction in movement also comes a natural restriction in breathing.  One of these companies is Winter Fetish they have a number of really nice bondage pieces and lots of vinyl and rubber wear.

One of the things I did find interesting is that because of the study of this fetish there has been some medical advances made for other mental problems such as Autism. The close and calming effect of restrictions brings some people a sense of well being if only for a little while.  Another interesting thing I found out while doing research was that a very famous British Spy Gareth Williams was thought to have died from a play session that did not end well.

If you are a person that enjoys or has dabbled in this fantasy I would greatly enjoy hearing about your stories.

Inquest into death of MI6 spy